| First: write a good introductory letter | | | | - Talk on the common topics or the topics you |
| In order to write an impressive introductory letter | | | | have already discussed. For instance, about the |
| to a woman the man needs to know a few | | | | movie you watched recently. Remember what |
| things that would put him in good stand with the | | | | you wrote in the letters. Your telephone |
| lady. It is widely known that you never get a | | | | conversation should be the natural continuing of |
| second chance of the first impression. | | | | the correspondence. |
| - Be honest and provide accurate information | | | | - It is better to prepare the topics before the |
| about yourself: your name, age, profession, family | | | | conversation, that you would like to discuss, but |
| status. | | | | you should not predict all your phrases and the |
| - Write about your hobbies and your personality, | | | | woman's answers. Just think of the topics that |
| but try to avoid enumerating commonplace things | | | | you would like to talk about during the |
| like traveling, music and animals. If they actually | | | | conversation. Maybe, in the beginning of |
| are your hobbies give more details, try to think of | | | | conversation all the thoughts will fly away from |
| something special and original to excite the | | | | your head and the promptings that you wrote will |
| woman's imagination. | | | | help you a lot. |
| - Try to make your letter as more personal as | | | | - Be honest. It is very easy to get lost in your |
| possible. Tell her about your mood, about how | | | | own words, when you are trying to fill hard |
| was your day. Tell her some touching story from | | | | minutes of silence not thinking about what you |
| your life. | | | | talk. Try not to let that happen. |
| - Do not be shy to demonstrate your interest in | | | | - When the minute of farewell will come, you |
| the lady. Feel free to ask questions. | | | | should arrange the next call. You should not |
| - Compliments... You should never forget about | | | | arrange the meeting at once. It would be nice if |
| them. Actually that is #1 point in our tip list. | | | | there will be several telephone conversations |
| Compliment her picture. Be sincere from the very | | | | between you for you both to get to know each |
| start. Let her know what impressed you about | | | | other better and to loose the final |
| her at first sight. | | | | awkwardness.Third: Personal meeting |
| - Make your letter bright and impressive. Do not | | | | As you know, everybody has his or her own idea |
| forget about jokes. It is important that you sound | | | | of what is good and bad at the first meeting. But, |
| friendly, optimistic and positive from the very | | | | to tell the truth, slavic standards of good behavior |
| start. | | | | do not differ much from those accepted in the |
| - Keep your letter short. There is no need to | | | | Western countries. |
| write a novel for 2 or 3 pages. Your letter should | | | | - At the first meeting you should have a tidy |
| occupy a bit more than a half of a standard page. | | | | looks and be polite. |
| Do not forget to attach your photo. | | | | - Do not forget to greet her. There is no need to |
| - Reply promptly. If you do not have time to | | | | shake her hand. Just smile, look into her eyes and |
| reply, send a lady your short note just to notify | | | | say "Hi". |
| her that you are busy and will get back on her | | | | - Do not talk too loud. Listen to her carefully |
| later. | | | | without interrupting. Display your interest in her. |
| - The main tip is be yourself and show her the | | | | Complement her. Just act as a gentleman. Before |
| best parts of your personality.Second: Make a | | | | smoking ask her if she does not mind your |
| phone call | | | | smoking. |
| Are you getting nervous before the first | | | | - Even if she says something that you find hard |
| telephone conversation with your virtual love? | | | | to understand, be tolerant and try to understand |
| Read our advices. Perhaps, they will help you to | | | | her. Do not press on her or don't display your |
| get over your nervousness and to feel | | | | aggression. |
| yourselves as old friends. | | | | - It is unacceptable from the Russian women's |
| - Try to concentrate and make it impossible | | | | point of view to keep silence at the meeting or |
| something to distract your attention (TV, relatives | | | | be indifferent to the lady. Of course, it is essential |
| and even the kids). If you will look aside the | | | | that you be honest with her. |
| woman will think that you are not interested in | | | | - Because lots of Slavic men are inclined to |
| her. | | | | alcoholism, drinking alcohol too much is what may |
| - Smile. Though the woman does not see your | | | | make your woman angry with you. |
| smile, on the other side of wire she will definitely | | | | - When it comes to the marital life, Russian |
| feel it. The smile will help not only you to feel | | | | women value devotion and reliability most. That is |
| freer, but it will have the same effect on your | | | | why you should demonstrate your partner that |
| interlocutor. | | | | she is special to you. |