| First: write a good introductory letter | | | | same effect on your interlocutor. |
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| In order to write an impressive introductory | | | | - Talk on the common topics or the topics you |
| letter to a woman the man needs to know a few | | | | have already discussed. For instance, about |
| things that would put him in good stand with | | | | the movie you watched recently. Remember what |
| the lady. It is widely known that you never | | | | you wrote in the letters. Your telephone |
| get a second chance of the first impression. | | | | conversation should be the natural continuing |
| | | | of the correspondence. |
| - Be honest and provide accurate information | | | | |
| about yourself: your name, age, profession, | | | | - It is better to prepare the topics before |
| family status. | | | | the conversation, that you would like to |
| | | | discuss, but you should not predict all your |
| - Write about your hobbies and your | | | | phrases and the woman's answers. Just think |
| personality, but try to avoid enumerating | | | | of the topics that you would like to talk |
| commonplace things like traveling, music and | | | | about during the conversation. Maybe, in the |
| animals. If they actually are your hobbies | | | | beginning of conversation all the thoughts |
| give more details, try to think of something | | | | will fly away from your head and the |
| special and original to excite the woman's | | | | promptings that you wrote will help you a |
| imagination. | | | | lot. |
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| - Try to make your letter as more personal as | | | | - Be honest. It is very easy to get lost in |
| possible. Tell her about your mood, about how | | | | your own words, when you are trying to fill |
| was your day. Tell her some touching story | | | | hard minutes of silence not thinking about |
| from your life. | | | | what you talk. Try not to let that happen. |
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| - Do not be shy to demonstrate your interest | | | | - When the minute of farewell will come, you |
| in the lady. Feel free to ask questions. | | | | should arrange the next call. You should not |
| | | | arrange the meeting at once. It would be nice |
| - Compliments... You should never forget | | | | if there will be several telephone |
| about them. Actually that is #1 point in our | | | | conversations between you for you both to get |
| tip list. Compliment her picture. Be sincere | | | | to know each other better and to loose the |
| from the very start. Let her know what | | | | final awkwardness.Third: Personal meeting |
| impressed you about her at first sight. | | | | |
| | | | As you know, everybody has his or her own |
| - Make your letter bright and impressive. Do | | | | idea of what is good and bad at the first |
| not forget about jokes. It is important that | | | | meeting. But, to tell the truth, slavic |
| you sound friendly, optimistic and positive | | | | standards of good behavior do not differ much |
| from the very start. | | | | from those accepted in the Western countries. |
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| - Keep your letter short. There is no need to | | | | - At the first meeting you should have a tidy |
| write a novel for 2 or 3 pages. Your letter | | | | looks and be polite. |
| should occupy a bit more than a half of a | | | | |
| standard page. Do not forget to attach your | | | | - Do not forget to greet her. There is no |
| photo. | | | | need to shake her hand. Just smile, look into |
| | | | her eyes and say "Hi". |
| - Reply promptly. If you do not have time to | | | | |
| reply, send a lady your short note just to | | | | - Do not talk too loud. Listen to her |
| notify her that you are busy and will get | | | | carefully without interrupting. Display your |
| back on her later. | | | | interest in her. Complement her. Just act as |
| | | | a gentleman. Before smoking ask her if she |
| - The main tip is be yourself and show her | | | | does not mind your smoking. |
| the best parts of your personality.Second: | | | | |
| Make a phone call | | | | - Even if she says something that you find |
| | | | hard to understand, be tolerant and try to |
| Are you getting nervous before the first | | | | understand her. Do not press on her or don't |
| telephone conversation with your virtual | | | | display your aggression. |
| love? Read our advices. Perhaps, they will | | | | |
| help you to get over your nervousness and to | | | | - It is unacceptable from the Russian women's |
| feel yourselves as old friends. | | | | point of view to keep silence at the meeting |
| | | | or be indifferent to the lady. Of course, it |
| - Try to concentrate and make it impossible | | | | is essential that you be honest with her. |
| something to distract your attention (TV, | | | | |
| relatives and even the kids). If you will | | | | - Because lots of Slavic men are inclined to |
| look aside the woman will think that you are | | | | alcoholism, drinking alcohol too much is what |
| not interested in her. | | | | may make your woman angry with you. |
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| - Smile. Though the woman does not see your | | | | - When it comes to the marital life, Russian |
| smile, on the other side of wire she will | | | | women value devotion and reliability most. |
| definitely feel it. The smile will help not | | | | That is why you should demonstrate your |
| only you to feel freer, but it will have the | | | | partner that she is special to you. |